A Bridal Shower or Bachelorette Party is  simply a  gift giving party given for a bride before her wedding.

• If you are short on time , like I usually am or need some quick and inexpensive ideas , I have listed some of the resources I have used, to give you a jump start. Since most Bridal Showers takes place four to six weeks before a wedding it is best to try to degsignate which  Maid of honor(Bridesmaid) will be in charge of the shower arrangements ASAP.

Bridal Shower Gift suggestion checklist:

Looking For Ideas To Host The Perfect Bridal Shower? Check Out Best Bridal Shower Games And More 

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Photo Wedding Cake ( sorry I could not resist this , I love cakes)

This cake is beautiful, and it can be used for any occasion ,not just weddings and bridal showers.

You can find out more info here:Dream Cakes Made Easy!

Bridal Shower Planning
This Ebook lists:
A detailed ‘to do’ list
Should you surprise the bride?
Out-of-town showers
Scheduling
Who should you invite?
All about invitations
Sample invitation wording
Decoration ideas
Menu choices and more! Planning a Bridal Shower

This list is not complete , I find and  try new things all of the time ,feel  free to come back and check this post for any updates. if you have  hany resources leave a comment and I will add it to the list.

Parents of teenagers know how important fashion is to them.  Each teen has his or her own individual style.  Some love to follow the latest trends, while others have a fashion sense all their own.  Here are some of the hottest fashion trends for teens this spring:

The Little White Dress

The little black dress is a perennial favorite, but one of this spring’s most notable trends is the little white dress.  Whether it’s a simple A-line or a cute little crocheted number, the little white dress is versatile and easy to accessorize.  You can also easily add some punch to it with some brightly colored jewelry and shoes.

White is also a hit for the prom, for both boys and girls.  White dresses and tuxedos are quite elegant, and they can be accessorized with virtually any color.  If all white is too intimidating for your teen, there are some nice black and white options for the prom.

Belts

Belts are a big deal this spring.  Skinny belts are making a comeback in a big way, but big, thick belts are a favorite as well.  Both are being paired with dresses to slim and draw attention to the waist.

Patent is popular in accessories, and belts are no exception.  A shiny patent belt can add lots of interest to almost any outfit.  You can find these belts in a variety of colors, not just black and white.

Sheer Fabrics

Sheer fabrics have been all over the runways this season.  There, they leave little to the imagination.  In real life, they are great for layering with solid pieces.

Sheer jackets or button-up shirts in vivid prints look great with coordinating solid-colored tank tops.  Scarves are also a hit this spring, and there are lots of lovely sheer ones to choose from.

Lots of Silver

Silver is one of the most popular colors of the season.  There are plenty of ways that teens can incorporate it into their wardrobes.  Jewelry is one of them, but not the only one.

Metallic fabrics are both trendy and elegant, and they can be found in everything from dresses to outerwear.  Shoes and handbags are also great in silver, and they complement the season’s neutral colors very well.  Even belts and scarves in silver tones can add some shine to an ensemble.

Floral Prints

The femininity of floral prints is often seen in the spring.  Large and mid-sized floral prints are all the rage for both teens and adults this season.  Dresses are the most obvious place for them, but they can also be found on shirts, jackets, pants, and handbags.

Floral prints also provide a great way to introduce color without wearing it from head to toe.  White or neutral backgrounds are unobtrusive, yet when you add some brightly colored flowers to them, it really makes them pop.

Being a mom doesn’t mean you have to give up your sense of style.  While you might not opt for the miniskirts that you wore in your pre-parenting days, there are plenty of spring fashions that are perfect for moms. Check out what’s hot this season:

Metallic Fabrics

Metallics are eye-catching, and they can be paired with a variety of colors.  Accessories and outerwear in metallic fabrics are great for adding life to your wardrobe.  Best of all, many metallic pieces can go from casual to formal in a snap.

Metallic purses are especially versatile.  Many of them can be converted from shoulder bags to clutches, eliminating the need to change purses for different looks.  Some even have removable handles for added versatility.  And it’s not necessary to pay big bucks for them.  You can find designer-inspired bags at a fraction of the cost in many discount stores.

Splashes of Color

Neutrals are popular this spring, but they are often paired with bright or colorful accessories.  If you don’t feel that bright colors are flattering on you, using them sparingly can make your outfit pop without being “too much”.

Jewelry, hair accessories, belts, tote bags, and shoes are good places to start if you want to inject a little color into your wardrobe.  Neutral dresses with bright floral accents are also good for adding just the right amount of color.  And if you feel comfortable in them, all-over brights are popular as well.

Ethnic Prints and Accents

Styles inspired by safari wear, the Far East, and other global customs add interest to spring fashion.  There are a variety of ways you could incorporate this into your wardrobe.

If you want to be bold, you could choose an entire ensemble based on an ethnic theme.  An ethnic shirt or dress with neutral pants, shoes, and accessories is also stunning.  Or you could choose to use some eye-catching ethnic accessories to complement tamer clothing.

Trendy Diaper Bags

Moms with younger kids have lots of attractive diaper bag options these days.  More and more of them are being designed with Mom’s fashion sense in mind.  Designer diaper bags offer a lot in the way of luxury, but there are also fashionable bags available that do not cost as much.

Patent is hot this spring, and it works nicely for diaper bags because it’s easy to keep clean.  Bright floral prints are also nice for carrying the little one’s necessities.  If you can’t find a diaper bag that suits your tastes, consider a roomy tote bag as an alternative.

Shaving is one task that most women hate to tackle. It is something that takes a considerable amount of time and with today’s woman being as busy as ever, there is simply not enough time in the day! Even though it is bothersome, there are few women who can comfortably live with hairy legs, at least for more than a week or two. Therefore, we need to find out what can be done to not make shaving our legs not as bothersome. Whew! Although some women never think twice about how far to shave, there are many women who are in constant wonder about whether they should shave more than an inch above their knees. Most young women rarely worry about shaving above their knees unless they have dark hair growth. Adult women however rarely leave any part of their leg unshaved.
It is a personal preference. If you are comfortable leaving your upper leg a bit fuzzy, then by all means,do so. Once you do begin shaving the upper area however, you may find that you are only comfortable when your entire leg is hair-free. Many women determine how much of their legs they shave by the weather, I do and don’t really no why. If they are planning on wearing a short skirt, bathing suit, or shorts, they will shave their entire leg. However, in the winter season they may forgo shaving altogether. Single women who date are much more likely to shave their entire legs everyday. Married women are more likely to skip a day or only shave the parts of their legs that are visible to the general public. After deciding exactly what you are going to shave and what you will leave for later, there are a few things that you should do to make sure shaving is a comfortable experience. The most important thing you can do is to use a fresh razor. Razors can be used more than once, obviously, however you should certainly change your razor at least once a week. Disposable razors are different and should be tossed daily. With a fresh razor in hand, you should lather up with a good shaving agent. You can use a shaving gel, cream, or lotion. Try the female versions of shaving products, as they are usually a bit more sensitive. However, in a pinch, you can certainly reach for your man’s cream. Another great item to use to help you in shaving is hair conditioner. It works just like shaving lotion and can help moisturize your legs during and after you shave. Try not to use soap as this will only dry out your legs and makes shaving uncomfortable. Even though you are likely rushed to get in and out of the shower, be sure to take your time when you shave. The more time and effort you take, the better your shave will be. You will have a smoother shave with less nicks and rashes if you shave slowly. So slow it down. Saving your shaving routine for last when in the shower is also a good idea. By allowing your hair to soften from washing and the heat of the water, you will find shaving to be more soothing than nerve-racking. What you do to your legs after leaving the shower is almost as important as what you do when you are in the shower. Never leave shaved legs dry and without moisture. Most women can lather on body lotion right after shaving, but some may find this irritating to their legs. If you find yourself in an irritating situation, consider skipping your shaving routine for a few days. After your irritation heals, try using baby oil right on your legs after shaving. Just about everyone can use this without irritation. It is a bit messier, but it will provide everything you need for a comfortable shave. Getting a clean and non-irritating leg shave can mean putting a little more effort into the routine then you may expect. However, these tips are not so time consuming that you will notice a big difference in your morning schedule. They are mostly things that you can start making habits, which will ultimately take no more time for you to accomplish than your normal routine.

Direct Answers from Wayne and Tamara

Buckle Up

I am a married woman in my 40s. Through the years I?ve thought about the first guy I ever loved. We met in college when I was 18 and he was 20. We loved each other, but I was young and scared of commitment, so I kept running away from him and our relationship. Through the years, I?ve often fantasized about what might have been.

A few weeks ago I located him on a web site and wrote him a letter. I said I still think about him and wonder how he is. I did tell him that I?m happily married, but wonder what might have been.

He wrote back and told me he?s glad I?m happily married. He?s also married, and he wrote about his life, career, and family. He said he has to admit he?s also wondered what might have been. He wrote that given the place and time we?re both at, he doesn?t see anything wrong with two old friends catching up and corresponding.

Is it okay for us to continue writing to each other, or is this just asking for trouble?

Suree

Suree, there?s a difference between thinking you might rob a bank and reconnoitering banks. Idle thoughts are one thing, but real people?and real banks?are another.

You?ve taken a step toward bringing a fantasy into the world. What?s next? Chatting on the phone, exchanging photos, finding a shoulder to cry on? If your husband catches you, will you tell him you had a legitimate reason?closure?to contact this man. He may buy that, but we aren?t.

If your marriage is that happy, why would there be thoughts for another man? You?ve checked off a box on a form in your head which allows you to move forward, but your husband and his wife haven?t seen the form, much less checked off the box.

We tell ourselves lies, and the lie that goes with this man is ?we are just old friends.? You aren?t. You were two people who were sexually attracted to each other. Sexual attraction sparked the contact, and the element of friendship didn?t survive that.

There is a reason we don?t vacation in a war zone and a reason we fasten our seatbelt. We want to be safe. But you are taking off the seatbelt on your marriage. You wrote because you are pretty sure you?ve already stepped over the line.

If there is a big enough gap in your life for another man, deal with that first.

Wayne & Tamara

Meant To Be

Over two years ago, when I first began dating someone new, I wrote and asked for your advice. You told me to basically quit being an idiot and stop making issues where there were none. I followed your advice.

The other day I was e-mailed a link to an old column of yours. The column was on age difference, and it contained the note I wrote. The person who sent me the link is my now wife. We are living happy, blessed lives together, and I just wanted to say thanks again for the sage counsel.

Kirk

Kirk, we remember your letter. You were a divorced Army officer, 42, on your last tour, and she was a young woman, 23. When you met, each assumed the other to be late 20s. You were enchanted, but when you learned her age, you backed off emotionally. She didn?t see the problem. Two days later she e-mailed you, and the rest is history.

When there is a significant age difference, what matters is that both people are adults when they get together and they have that connection which is love. A woman, whose older husband is now deceased, wrote us, ?If ever there were two people who completed two halves of a whole, it was us.? She added, ?What a ride it was. I thank God that He brought us together.?

Wayne & Tamara

Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached at www.WayneAndTamara.com.

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